Since when was it acceptable to wear jeans to a funeral? Teeshirts? Basketball shoes? Yes, I saw all of these things at my dear neighbor's funeral today. NOT OKAY. Jim, our neighbor, spent time overseas with the Air Force during the Korean War, therefore, he had a beautiful military service at the burial. As the horn played Taps, I looked around and was baffled by the amount of casual wear I saw----this was a funeral for God's sakes. HOWEVER, when I die, I want everyone to show up in their favorite pair of sweatpants.